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Gender [2001-12-15|1.0]
[Androgyne]
gender-free

Gender's an interesting subject for me. I've tried presenting as and identifying as, not only the two standard gender roles; female and male, but also as both at once and at different times, as somewhere between the two binary choices, a something else entirely and as having no gender at all. None of which really worked for me and I eventually decided that perhaps gender identity itself isn't a useful metaphor for me. In effect I have 'given up' gender. I'm not saying I don't have gendered behaviour or that other people do not perceive gender in me, I'm simply saying that I find no benefit or relevance in basing any part of my identity on whatever gender is there. I am not only completely unable to gender myself in any meaningful way, but I find that I don't actually need to have a gender identity in order to live a comfortable and productive life. For me gender comes from the perceptions of other people and that works for me.

Linked from this page are all the footnotes concerning my experience and perspective of gender as well as some pages examining general transgender, genderqueer and gender-free concepts.

Footnotes
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Gender-Free
Why one might choose to adopt gender-free language.

Pronouns
An examination of which of the current potential gender non-specific and third gender pronoun neologisms are best suited to the specific task of the gender-free pronoun.

Genderqueer Links
Worthwhile websites by and about third-, bi-, poly-, inter-, other-, un- and non-gendered people.

External links

The Androgyny RAQ
Back in late 1997 this site, along with the long dead Androgynarchy, was a great inspiration and triggered a huge reaction which came as a complete surprise at the time. Over the next four years whereever I went I always ended up back at androgyny's doorstep. Highly recommended, well written, thought provoking and amusing.

Sphere
A website and associated mailing list devoted to the exploration of gender as more complex than merely a binary or contiuum. Contains writings and personal experiences from numerous contributors.

Laughing Tranny
"Putting the euphoria back in dysphoria", Laughing Tranny looks at the more amusing side of transgender experience.